Temple Night NYC: Existential Kink

Ceremonial Tantra Party with a special celebrity guest facilitator!

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Temple Night NYC: A Ceremonial Tantra Party

 

📅 Date: Sat Oct 25th, 2025
📍 Location: Private Venue – Address Provided Upon Registration
🕰️ Time: 8:00 PM – 4:00 AM


Our Tantric Temple Ceremony is more than an event; it’s a movement to create a world where love, joy, and connection flourish. Through the blending of ancient practices, modern insights, and safer, intentional spaces, we aim to foster personal growth, healing, and community. We combine Tantra, shadow work & somatic practices like breath work, ecstatic dance, pleasure, play and kink to create a unique trauma informed healing experience.

Join us for a night of sensual ritual, ecstatic embodiment, and soul-aligned connection as we harness this potent moment to awaken our bodies and call in our deepest desires. Through guided Tantric practices, erotic temple ritual, touch, sound, and intention, we will co-create a sacred space where your body becomes the altar—and your pleasure, the prayer.

Expect chanting, breathwork, activation of the senses, golden light rituals, energetically guided oracle messages, and a decadent solar feast. Consent is essential and all parts of you are welcome.

✨ What to Expect:


Temple Night NYC is a guided ritual experience that blends Tantra, myth, embodiment, and kink-friendly sacred space. Each ceremony is themed around a deity or mythological archetype to support personal transformation, shadow integration, and ecstatic communion.

Highlights include:

🔸 Consent & Orientation – We will review community agreements and expectations for behavior to ensure the safest possible space for exploration. We will also review the dynamics of how to engage at our event.

🔸 Opening Cacao Ceremony – We will begin the evening with a heart opening cacao elixir and meditation as we set our intentions for the evening.

🌞 Golden Light Ritual – Light activation & breathwork to awaken solar energy

🎶 Sound & Music Magic – Group toning, ecstatic rhythm & musical invocation

🌿 Consent Rituals – Honoring sacred boundaries (inspired by Daphne’s myth)

💔 Grief Alchemy – Transforming loss into beauty (guided by Hyacinthus)

🔥 Sacred Touch & Sensual Play – Optional partnered or solo practices in a sex-positive, consent-forward container

🔸 Closing Integration Circle – Ground the experience through communal reflection and ritual closing of the temple gates.

🔸 Free Play – Social Time  – The Temple will be open with different themed areas for all levels of desire.

👗 Dress Code:

Sacred attire inspired by ancient temples of any tradition:

  • Greek or Egyptian Flowing fabrics, gold and red tones
  • Body adornments, veils, and natural fabrics
  • Earth nature goddess/gods
  • Feel free to embody the energy of a priestess, consort, or sacred initiate

We encourage everyone to dress in theme with other options being klnk gear, fet wear, leather, latex, sexy attire or cocktail lounge wear. You can be turned away at the door if you do not put in effort.

Who Is This Event For?

This 21+ adults-only event welcomes individuals and couples of all genders, sexualities and relationship styles who are curious about sacred sexuaIity, Tantra, and shadow work. Whether you’re new to these practices or well-versed, this ceremony is an opportunity to expand your understanding of love, intimacy, and connection in a safer, inclusive and FUN environment.

☎️ Community Integration Call

Join us on Zoom in the week following the event, a sacred space to reflect, share, and connect after your transformative experience at Tantric Temple Night NYC. 🌟 This call offers an opportunity to process what came up for you, gain insights from others, and integrate the healing, pleasure, and growth into your everyday life. Whether you want to share your journey, ask questions, or simply listen and hold space, this call is a chance to deepen the connection to yourself and the community. Let’s come together to nurture the seeds of love and expansion we planted during the event. Ticket holders will receive an email with integration call details after the event. 💫

About Our Facilitators:

Pagan’s Paradise & Sovereign Love NYC are leading curators of erɸtic Temple experiences and very excited to bring you their top facilitators for this very special evening of conscious deb@uchery:

Vanessa Velez-Panzella

is a Trauma Informed Psychedelic Integration & Relationship Guide. She works with her clients to clear trauma through plant medicines, meditation and somatic practices. Over the last decade Vanessa has re-indigenized into her Mexica & Toltec lineages and is trained in Mexica (Aztec) Astrological Cosmology.

Dominus Eros

is a highly skilled professional licensed Massage Therapist for over 15 years, Dom, sex educator and creator of Pagans Paradise,  

Dominus will be facilitating Tantric “play shops” teaching skills to ground into deeper intimacy & eros embodiment.

Danny Panzella-Velez

is a trauma-informed Psychedelic Integration & Relationship Guide helping people develop deeper intimacy with their divine selves and partners and is the co-founder of Sovereign Love.

Danny is skilled in building bridges of connection that create safety and vulnerability.

Fairy Hawk

Fairy Hawk Is a Liberation Activator & Sacred Sacrament Ceremonialist. Her mission is for humanity to remember their original divinity and to awaken and activate their gifts through Channeled Readings, Reiki, Kundalini Yoga, Breathe Work, Intuitive Body work, Light Language Activations, and Intuitive Ritual Body Art.

What Attendees Are Saying...

Alice

Temple Night was pure magic—a seamless blend of tantra, sex magic, and kink that made me feel safe to completely let go. From the moment the ceremony began, it felt like stepping into a dream that had been waiting for me to awaken. The energy in the room was palpable, rising and falling like a living breath. As the music pulsed and the rituals unfolded, I felt the layers of my everyday self dissolve, revealing a connection to something ancient and wild within. It was a night of raw, beautiful transformation, where I found not just a connection with others but a deep reconnection with my own essence. If you’re looking for a space to explore your boundaries and step into your power, Temple Night is the doorway you’ve been searching for.

 

Endless thanks to Pagans Paradise and Sovereign Love NYC for creating such a transformative space. With much love and hugs!

JC

Attending the temple night on August 31st was an incredibly healing and transformative journey for me. A ceremony was divinely led by Danny and Vanessa in a journey that felt safe and energetically nourishing, allowing me to deeply engage with meditation and the subsequent primal play. The guidances were not only grounding but trauma-aware, which supported a sense of healing and real emotional release. I shared authentic connection with others, culminating in a collective celebration that was spiritually liberating. I’m grateful for the care and intention from all the facilitators that made this event a sanctuary for personal growth and healing.

ES

Temple was such a sacred and emotional experience that I wouldn’t trade for anything! I felt cared for from the moment that the intention of the evening was explained! 

And the connections that I made. I felt the space help forge new ways of connecting to myself and other folk. That energy is easily addictive. 

I’ll definitely be coming back. I feel like Temple opened a new door of magic and sensuality that was really healing!

 

Lord Erebus

As someone who has grown up with deep seated religious values, shame and inhibition have always been a big part of my life. That's why Temple Night NYC is such an important offering. I was able to share my insecurities in community and that made me feel happier with my circumstances.

D

Wounded to Wild (8/31/24) was the standout event of the quarter for me. The experiential exercises and spiritual practices created an environment where I felt safe , happy and free to fully embody my goddess self. I highly recommend it to anyone who enjoys play parties with a focus on spiritual growth!

Chris

As a first timer to Temple Night I didnt quite know what to expect and was a bit skeptical about its claims to be healing but I was pleasantly surprised! I was warmly welcomed and made some beautiful connections. The experience combined music, meditation and play in a unique and cathartic way. I left feeling renewed and looking forward to the next Temple Night!

Activities/Scenes include: 

• Social time & Opening Circle

• Temple Sacrament Cacao Ceremony

• Meditation & Breath Work

• Tantric play-shops

• Multiple experience rooms for every taste and comfort level

• Multiple ceiling hard-points, benches and X's

• Free pro scenes, limited to first come first serve

• Free party fun time and SO MUCH MORE! 

 What to bring:

• Your unique Divine essence

• Your ID (this is an 21+ event)

• Tips for performers & healers $$$

• BYOD (your favorite drinks/libations but NO ALCOHOL please + toys/tools)

• Open, curious minds and the intention to connect with your authentic sensual expression.

 

Doors will open at 8pm for open socializing and close promptly at 9:30pm for Consent Talk, Opening Circle and Cacao Ceremony. From then on, it shall remain a closed, safer container.

This event is perfect for all experience levels and we encourage all to engage to their level of comfort and risk profile. 

 

There is NO ALCOHOL permitted for this event.

You may bring non-alcohol beverages of your choice.


🕊️ Consent & Safety:

This is a trauma-informed space where consent and boundaries are sacred. All touch and connection are by invitation only—no one will ever be pressured to participate in any activity. Temple Night is about stepping into your authentic erotic expression while honoring your personal boundaries and the boundaries of others.

Please Note: All activities are consent based and optional. Feel free to participate in what feels comfortable and aligned with your personal desires. We encourage everyone to have an open mind in that this is an experience that welcomes all to explore and try new things within a safer, curated space. We will review community agreements and expectations for behavior to ensure the safest possible space for exploration. We will also review the dynamics of how to engage at our event during our opening circle. 

Trigger Warning: We do our best to create a safer space through a trauma-informed lens, however due to the nature of shadow work; difficult feelings may arise during our meditations and playshops. Our trauma-informed guides and staff guardians are here to hold space with care and sensitivity. We ask that you join us in co-creating a brave space—one where we each take responsibility for managing our triggers and regulating our nervous systems. For those who may feel overstimulated, we offer a Low Stimulation Room as a place to ground and center. Additionally, neutral social spaces are available outside the ceremony should you wish to step away and reconnect at your own pace.

 

🎟️ Tickets:

✨ Early Bird: $100 – Limited availability
✨ General Admission: $125
✨ Couples Admission: $225

Address and further details provided upon registration. 👉 Reserve your spot now and step into the temple.

Your pleasure is sacred. Your vulnerability is power. Your wholeness awaits.

Temple Night NYC: Existential Kink

Ceremonial Tantra Party with a special celebrity guest facilitator!

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